Toxic is an overused word like what about it is so toxic. Like a lot of times when men are talking about how they feel about things right. It's called toxic like for having feelings but then when we don't have feelings that's also toxic. So it's like what do you want??
Maybe it's not toxic masculinity maybe it's just masculinity or maybe it's just a preference because it doesn't align with what your view of what do you think a man should be like because your view of what a man should be like isn't a masculine view of a man. It's a feminine view of a man and that's not a man you see?